What We Planned & What Actually Happened


The next eight weeks until we picked Target up and brought him home passed uneventfully to say the least.  We juggled with names for our new puppy.  The breeder was calling him Target because of his bullseye, but I wanted something heroic, or creative.  The joke was always that my cat Cooper was named after my three favorite Coopers, James Fenimore Cooper (the author of The Last of the Mohican’s), Sheldon Lee Cooper (The Big Bang Theory) and lastly, after the sexy Bradley Cooper… because... well… you know?  I wanted the puppy’s name to be something similarly complicated and deep.  Not only did I want to be able to tell stories about my dog, I wanted him to be a story in himself.   
While, my boyfriend could often just let me roll on things like this, it would have been easier to let me roll if I wasn’t entirely indecisive about which direction I was rolling in.  One day I wanted to name the puppy Coupland, (after one of my favorite authors Douglas Coupland), but days (in some cases even hours) later, I wanted to name him Rex, like the border collie from Babe.  In the end, it would be the night that we picked him up that we finally decided to continue to call him Target.  Despite the fact that I didn’t think it was creative enough for him in the beginning, I have been very surprised at how many people meet him and smirk when I introduce him.
“Your dog’s name is Target?”  This has also left me wide open, a few times, to affectionately joke:
“I should have called him ‘Missed The Target’” when he does something clumsy or completely misses a queue.
We had a plan in place after we had paid the deposit for the puppy.  We had decided to push picking the puppy up a few weeks later than eight weeks old.  I had read books saying that a puppy left with its mother for 10-12 weeks would adjust easier and I also personally felt it might be easier on my boyfriend (we were supposed to get our dog in March, remember?).  I was reading all of the training books I could get my hands on and was happily telling people that yes indeed I was going to be one of “those” dog mom’s.  We wanted to be prepared and I was prepared to be prepared.
Until we weren’t.  The day the other male puppies were getting picked up I received a call from the breeder.  In order to ensure that none of the females would go to irresponsible breeders, they were all pediatric spayed before they went to their new homes.  Target, being the biggest and most formidable of the puppies (as well as, we know now, being deaf) was playing far too rough with his sisters after their surgeries.  She asked me if we could please come and pick him up and we did. After work that night we drove a couple of hours out to the breeder’s house and picked up our puppy, about 4 weeks earlier than we had planned.
We spent the first week or so completely unprepared for Target.  We had picked up the essentials for what we needed at the pet store after we left the breeder’s house with him and after that we “winged it” in every sense of the phrase.  I would eventually find my stride, but until there was Target, I only had cats and absolutely no maternal instinct.
Now that the time has passed and he has become such an integral part of our lives, I often wonder what would have happened if we hadn’t been called to take him that evening.
If the breeder had found out he was deaf before we did, would she have kept him?
He was such a love, even as a puppy and she was always saying he was her favorite.  If he had been left to get attached to them, would he have stayed there?
I have had instances in my life that would make people believe, I couldn’t possibly think that everything happens for a reason.  But, the way things went with Target, certainly makes me think that it’s true.  Even if, the reason I believe this is because my boyfriend and I found not just the good, but the amazing in the hand that we were dealt.


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